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Happinesss: When Things Don’t Go As Planned

February 8, 2016 By Linda K Sienkiewicz

The husband said he was going to prepare me for our ten-day trip to Singapore (he often travels overseas for work) by mentioning that things never go exactly as planned. I don’t think he ever could have anticipated this hiccup though. You see, we never got on the plane. We never even got past check in.

Singapore bound

Happiness is not an expired passportIt was a Monday, the first of February. We were excited and happy when we walked into Detroit Metro with suitcases full of warm-weather gear and backpacks loaded with books, earplugs, chargers, iTunes and games for the 19 hour flight.

Don printed his ticket at the kiosk, but the machine didn’t like my passport, so I checked with the attendant. He seemed a little irritated with me, but got the same message when he scanned it. He looked inside, then pointed at the date: Expires March 17th.

“Yes, I see. What’s the issue?” I asked. My stomach started fluttering.

Turned Away

“Your passport has to be valid for six months after your date of entry,” he said. “You can’t fly.” There was no wriggle room, no ifs, ands, or buts, and he had absolutely no sympathy for me. Why should he?

I looked at Don. He looked back at me and shrugged. “I guess we reschedule our trip,” was all he said. He was so accepting of this that I wanted to cry. Instead, I put on my big girl pants. We carried our stuff out of the airport to wait for a ride home. There was no swearing, no eye-rolling, no gnashing of teeth. No rolling on the floor, kicking and screaming.

I can’t say that I was cheery, but by the time evening rolled around we were laughing about it, both of us blaming ourselves. I knew I cut it close with the expiration date, but didn’t want to send it to the government to get  it renewed because I feared I wouldn’t get it back in time (renewals are at an all time high). I never imagined the passport had to be good for 6 months past your arrival date. Don said he’s lulled into complacency because he has a visa and special clearance when he flies.

Then I found this quote by Andy Rooney:12573842_750072698456696_6874274875835294502_n

Moving on

It’s okay. Things don’t always go as planned. We didn’t base our happiness on a trip to Singapore. We got wicked-good corned beef sandwiches from Main Street Deli for lunch. I went to the grocery store and bought milk. We snuggled on the couch to watch TV together, and went to sleep in our own bed. It’s okay.

The next day we rescheduled our entire trip. I sent my old passport off for a renewed one. I’m not going to bother unpacking.



In the Context of LoveLinda K. Sienkiewicz is the author of In the Context of Love, adult contemporary fiction, a 2016 Eric Hoffer Book Award Finalist.

Angelica Schirrick had always suspected there was something deeply disturbing about her family, but the truth was more than she bargained for.

“…at once a love story, a cautionary tale, and an inspirational journey.” ~ Bonnie Jo Campbell, author of National Book Award Finalist, American Salvage, and critically acclaimed Once Upon a River,and Mothers, Tell Your Daughters

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  1. Rachael Hanel says

    February 8, 2016 at 10:40 am

    I’m glad you were able to reschedule! I guess this trip this time around wasn’t meant to be. I love that quote you found…wonderful reminder!

    • Linda K Sienkiewicz says

      February 8, 2016 at 11:25 am

      Truly!

      Thanks for stopping by, Rachael!

  2. Colleen M. Story says

    February 8, 2016 at 1:55 pm

    Ugh! So frustrating when that happens. A similar thing happened to me last fall when I took a trip to the west coast—couldn’t rent a car as my license had expired (unbeknownst to me–no mailed reminders). Maybe you’ll enjoy the trip even more now that it’s been delayed, eh? :O)

    • Linda K Sienkiewicz says

      February 8, 2016 at 5:36 pm

      Oh no! Stuck in an airport with no rental car! That’s a true “ugh.” We made plans to go in the spring, and I understand the weather is nice, so yes. Maybe. 🙂 Thanks for stopping by, Colleen!

  3. Mariam Kobras says

    February 9, 2016 at 2:50 pm

    Love it! And what a lovely hubby you have (he reminds me of mine; mine would have reacted JUST like that, whereas I would have flipped). It’s true: happiness is always in the small things. xo

    • Linda K Sienkiewicz says

      February 9, 2016 at 2:59 pm

      He really is a good guy. He was so calm when I backed his truck into a ditch, too. lol!

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